[EvilEvilKitten]

Oh so you think she should drop her friends because he's uncomfy with them?
Then when he turns out not to be the one for her and he's gone out of her life, do you think she'll get those friends back? NOPE! I can imagine the conversation.

"I'm sorry."
"You dump me because that a-hole told you to, what are you a doormat? And now you think 'sorry' is going to make it all better? What are you that you think a 'sorry' makes up for being treated with such disrespect? I don't think so. Goodbye."

A boyfriend has no right to tell her how to live her life, who she may have as friends, what she can do with her free time (and vice versa).

Would you drop your friends just because your current guy/gal told you to? Maybe you would. I wouldn't. I'd drop any guy who asked me to do that in a heartbeat - because if he's that weak, I don't want him.

Men compete for women and any calls to you to remove other men from the field means he doubts his ability to win you on his own merits so he's seeking an unfair advantage and having you do the dirty work. In this case, this guy doesn't trust her ex. He may be right.

But what he may not realise is that he's also saying he doesn't trust his girlfriend either. That will kill this relationship. No trust = No love.