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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
Well, that's one view. But why should SHE throw this friendship out of the window? How else is HE going to tell HER, to whom he isn't married, how to live her life??
If she begins caving into HIS every FEAR, where is it going to end??
Is he going to begin telling her how to dress - so as to not be attractive just in case she draws masculine eyes - would THAT be okay too??? This is how ABUSE begins.
Breaking off the 'romantic' does NOT, of necessity, mean breaking off the friendship. Not if EVERYONE is a mature adult.
For HIS own sake, he has to STOP this jealousy right now - for it will doom every relationship he will ever have. His love will become a prison in which he expects her to sacrifice everything for him - even her life. More often than not dying at his hands.
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- WOW! EvilKitty, you must be a few chapters further in the book than the rest of us! Sure, what your saying is true and does happen to alot of people out there. But I think that "dying at his hands" is a ridiculous thing to say when hes just said hes jealous over an ex-boyfriend!!!! -
I somewhat agree with you. I wouldnt be too happy if there is frequent contact considering he was an ex, if he was just a friend then it would be a different circumstance. Others here would say that its jealous and to get over it, sure, you should get over it, but you probably wont because your a normal person with an active mind. You'll question the situation, and most likely in this circumstance, come to the negative conclusion. Maybe to "prepare" yourself for a bad senario. In all likeliness, if she does "hate cheating" like you say, you would look like the fool for doubting her. I honestly dont blame you, i would probably feel the exact same way. I guess (as some have demanded you grow up) have a talk, and let her know how you feel without the conversation getting heated. Just let her know how it makes you feel and leave it at that, im sure she'll reflect on it at some point and show some understanding. Obviously, if its too much to handle, you could break up. But would you want that to happen over this?!