[Brandye]

Talk to her about it. Then, with her consent and after her satisfaction, lay back and let her work her female skills on you. May be by hand or mouth or whatever but I suspect she will find a way.

Masturbation by hand stimulates the penis more than the mucuous membrane of the mouth or vagina. Her performing vigourous hand manipulation will likely work. Once you get your response transferred to her, things will improve.