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New relationship
Hi all,
I used to post here many moons ago about problems with my girlfriend & her lack of sexual desire.
Well I've moved on since then, we broke up about a month ago & I've recently been seeing someone else.
I'm 24 & she's 30. Although we've only been together for a very short time, we've been through an awful lot.
The stuff we've been through has pushed us together & kind of forced things to move quite fast. We've had all sorts of stuff going on, everything seems against us at the moment but we're staying strong.
We both feel like we're in love with each other, although we haven't said the 3 words yet.
The problem is, we can't keep away from each other. We've been together for 3 weeks now & I've been staying at her house since we got together.
When we're in the pub, we pretty much ignore our mates & just spend the whole night together. We're obsessed with each other.
We forced ourselves to spend a night apart & we both felt like crap. Food didn't taste the same, we were miserable & we hated it.
How much time should we be spending apart?
I want to do the right thing, even if it hurts. I just don't know what the right thing is. I want us to last for a very long time but don't know how to do it.
All I know is that spending that much time with someone is unhealthy for a new relationship.
Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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