OK so your contention is, it's a measure of her respect for him, and of his self-respect, for him to demand she give him a BJ and for her to comply.
It's not a measure of his respect for her, or of her self-respect, that she stand up for her right to refuse if she's not into it? Or to work her way into it IF SHE CHOOSES TO IN THE END?
Turn this around--what about your self-respecting right to refuse to go down on a woman, or to do ANYTHING for a woman for that matter, if you so choose?
I saw in another of your posts that you're on a respect kick right now, and that's fine. Just remember that men don't have a monopoly on the right to be treated with respect.
And I mean that with all due respect
