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Tongue-in-cheek or not, I think you're jumping to a conclusion WSO. We have no idea how long they've been together, what all they've done together, etc. All we know is she's hesitating about a given act with a guy who has been her first time for everything she's done.

Who among us wasn't hesitant our first time with many of these things? God knows the first time I gave a BJ was several times after the guy in question asked for it. He even tried to push me down there by the shoulders a few times and I refused. Had zero to do with how much I respected him, and everything to do with my own self-consciousness about giving one for the first time ever. I had no clue what to do with it, and unfortunately his idea of education was to show me an internet video clip despite the fact I told him several times that seeing such a clip doesn't even remotely appeal to me.

Now, in the interest of full disclosure, I have ZERO respect for him whatsoever NOW, ever since the breakup. But that was not the case then, and it never did and still doesn't have anything to do with that or any other BJ.