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Amz69, don't worry too much. Arousal is all about mood and psychology, far more than the actual physical stimulation. You may just be putting too much pressure on yourself to orgasm when masturbating. I would suggest relaxing when you do it, and don't feel like you need to be able to orgasm straight away, just do whatever feels good. I wouldn't compare it to sex either; chances are the atmosphere will be a lot more exciting when you're having sex, which may be all you need to fix the issue.
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