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Being a guy with the same problem (I last for 3 hours on average), i have continuously heard the same thing when i have asked for advice, Talk to your partner. It's not you that is making any mistakes nor is it impossible for you to alleviate this problem, but the only way to make any headway is to sit down and have a good ol' heart to heart. maybe ask him questions that relate to his masturbatory techniques, or what he finds to be the most pleasing parts of your sexual activities, and go off that. I have found personally, that it I cannot climax until i know that i have completely satisfied my partner (though i still suffer from my original problem), though i still have to masturbate for quite some time till i do climax myself. would like to know however, how this all turned out for you, in hopes that maybe i could myself learn a thing or two.
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