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Just to go back to Cool Macs' original problem. I've gone through (am going through) the same issue. Chances are none of the simple stuff posted here will work, and I suspect you've already tried most of it. I can hardly ever bring up this topic with my girlfriend without her getting upset, and trying to encourage her to touch herself when we're having sex doesn't work. Nothing we have tried has made the slightest difference with this so I would have to say go with Brandye's suggestion if you really want to get past this and get some professional counselling, although I have no personal experience in this. If you love this girl you won't break up with her over this even if you never get past it, frustrating tho it may be. My gf can't even stand the idea of me masturbating, which is a problem I sincerely hope your relationship doesn't share.
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