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> my gf wants to try sex

By "sex", do you mean fooling around, making out, and maybe a h/j or b/j; or, do you mean sex as in intercourse?

Either way, there are several articles that you should read. I recommend going to the Index, and starting at the top of Page One and reading those articles that pertain to kissing, making out, dating, contraceptives, etc. Please read each one more than once, ask your girlfriend to read them and then discuss what you have read. Knowledge is empowering.

How long have the two of you been dating? I recommend spending several months just making out, divided up first with Necking, then later, Petting, on to Heavy Petting, all before getting to Foreplay or beyond. Do not be in a hurry to have intercourse. Get to know each other really really well, first.

Next, make this a rule: No birth control, no sex. You should have three types. Hers, yours, ours. Never rely upon your partner for your protection! Never rely upon both of yours and this is the reason for having a third back up, also. All this is explained in the article dealing with birth control. If you are going to fool around and engage in adult activities, you have to be adult about the responsibilities and consequences.

There is more to lovemaking than just plugging P into V and having a good time. Teen boys generally want to get their proverbial rocks off first and foremost. They may care for their girlfriend, yet when it comes to orgasms, we will say and do pretty much anything to get ours whether she gets one or not.

Next, girls want sex for different reasons than do boys. Do you know what the differences are? I suggest doing some reading. Jot down your questions and look for the answers within the articles.

After you have done your reading do not hesitate to ask questions or request clarification for anything you do not understand. This is why we are here, to make life easier for those following us.

I hope this is of help.