[EvilEvilKitten]

"Am I being too possessive? Or am I actually making a point that she doesn't see? Well if she's more interested in keeping a friendship with her ex-boyfriend, then I'll leave her, because I won't waste my time with her."

Your last sentence says it all. This is NOT about her and her ex. It is all about YOUR PRIDE.

YES, YOU are being possessive, controlling, and jealous.

My advice: GROW UP. But that I mean, deal effectively with your insecurities. The basis for jealousy, being controlling and possessive is the belief that YOU'RE NOT WORTHY so you want to prevent your having to compete with other males since you fear they will win since obviously you're nothing great and she could get a man anywhere.

Well, yes, that's true - she could. But she HASN'T. In spite of all the nonsense in your head, she has chosen you.

And now you're making her regret that decision?? Are you insane??

IDIOT! You're fighting a nonexistent war that will only get you kicked to the curb by a girlfriend who wished you had the courage to trust her and to trust in the love she felt for you. All you have been showing her is you grasping onto her tightly screaming "mine, mine, mine" like some two year-old child not yet out of diapers.

Either man up or get out knowing that the fault was yours.