> i never been a date, i recently asked a girl out on a date and she said yes, im new idk wat to do help me wat if i bored her?
Congratulations on taking that first step.
Relationships are partnerships, that said, discuss various possible activities with her.
* Suggest activities you would like to do
* Suggest activities you think she would like to do
* Ask her what her interests are and what she would like to do.
Now, if she has no preference, select one of her suggestions, or one of yours she likes. This is particularly important if you are planning to go the the movies and there are choices.
It sounds like you may not have noticed yet, but females of the species are generally pretty chatty creatures. Ask them an open ended question and stand back because many will talk about the subject at length. All you have to do is take mental notes about various things she says and interject questions. You'll find that this is a great way to learn about her and also to pass the time.
As for you, do not be tight-lipped. Talk to her and tell her things about you, yet do not go overboard and tell her everything there is to know about you. Keep a lot of facts and figures in reserve and dispense them over time. You'll whet her appetite for more and you will have things to talk about over the next several dates.
What if you bore her? Well, if she is the chatty type, this probably won't happen, particularly if you show interest in what she is saying and ask questions once in a while. If you tell her some things about you and what you are doing, discuss the movie or whatever other activity you are doing, then you should be fine. If you run out of things to say, don't fear silence; however, you can tell her you have run out of things to say and ask her for help.
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