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NO, people do NOT have to know what people are doing. Not at all!
Your bf has not yet learned to keep his mouth shut about what is no one else's business. Discretion, discretion, discretion.
Stop arguing; yes this will be difficult but you MUST not argue. You are permitting your emotions to get out of control and this is not very healthy for you now. Remember, you are NOT alone. Millions of women have had children before you and many millions more will after you. The process is rather well known. Get yourself a good doctor and relax.
As far as your bf goes. Stop being emotional with him. It scares him. As calmly as you can, state your case ONCE and then shut up. Take the time to then LISTEN to HIM. You are seeking a middle way here. If he does not cooperate with this, then he is not the man for you.
You see, part of being adult is making your own choices based upon what is best for you and what gets you closer to living the life you want to lead. Right now it may seem to be two steps forward and one step back - very slow progress, but it will get you there eventually. If your bf is willing to be part of your plan, fine. But if he isn't, be prepared to say goodbye.
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