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Excuse me but anyone who says to me that they are dating "down" to date me would never get the oportunity to pick me up. Who is this guy, royalty or some big shot aristocrat? Dating down, oh please that's one sorry SOB who's a legend own his own narcisiticcly warped mind!!
Now, why do you tolerate such disrespect and treatment? Do you believe his self promoting and self afirming BS? At some level do you believe his propoganda against you, your lifestyle and your social standing? You must because you keep letting him shovel his s*** down your throat. You teach people how to treat you and you've taught him pretty well how to (mis)treat you. Everytime you fail to assert yourself against his attempts to degrade and control you, you are bassiccly giving the dictator more athority and while reducing your self esteem and sense of personal worth. Your biggest fear shouldn't be "why is he doing this to me". Controlling behavior can easily esculate become abusive and abusive behavior can lead to your death or serious injury. Do you remember the Nicole Simpson/Ron Goldman case? She an Ron was brutally slaughtered by an angry, controlling EX husband. A person who to this day thinks he's above the law, which he surely must be to a point because he got away with it. Thankfully his dream legal team as well as the Goldman's civil suit took the largest portion of his wealth. Needless to say, you have to decide that you are better and deserve better. His biggest fear is that you'll find a backbone and stand up to him.
If you can't take time away to care for an ill and aged Grandmother without accusations of infidelity and threats to "take a break", he's the one with the real problem and I say you should give him a break. PERMANATLY! Let the king of swine rule the farm alone!
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