> the first few months we have had sex, it was great, last a long time but lately we have had even better sex BUT last a short time, he said it have never been a problem before til now and I'm really flattered that I make him comes quicker but we both want a long sex,
I just reread your original post and am confused by what your reference to "it" lasting a long time, now not so much. Do you mean that the entire episodes are not lasting as long, or, do you mean that your boyfriend is unable to hold off a climax as long as he used to?
If the latter, please read this article listed in the Index:
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation
Getting a fella to last longer is often a problem the younger the person is. Here are four accepted methods:
1. He should masturbate any time from an hour before make love to perhaps four hours beforehand.
2. While making love, bring him to climax as early into the episode as convenient, then, let him recover by going thru his refractory period that usually lasts between 5 and 30 minutes. During this down time, continue to make out. When he is ready to go, again, he will be able to hold off an orgasm longer.
3. Use the Squeeze technique. This method works well when the sensations of an impending climax sneak up on him.
4. Master the technique practiced in the article in order for him to be able to associate those sensations and can jog his conscious brain away from the intoxicating drive to go beyond the point of no return. When he has learned to do this, he can will himself to pause the proceedings and let his sense of urgency subside before continuing on. Doing this will prolong sex/intercourse.