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Originally Posted by pc4cb
Hi all 
We have been having sex for 3 months and we both still enjoy it,
Three out of five, not bad--and you are still enjoying it. I'm wondering from this statement if you will still be enjoying it in twelve months or sixty or 144? (Actually, just kidding, I guess it is the use of the word "still" that raised my curiosity about why and why wouldn't you.
but the thing is, the first few months we have had sex, it was great, last a long time but lately we have had even better sex BUT last a short time, he said it have never been a problem before til now and I'm really flattered that I make him comes quicker but we both want a long sex, we know theres something like pills, but we want to find out if theres any ways we can have sex longer that we can do it by ourselves?
There are no pills or potions. Yes, there is something the two of you can do and that is to learn more about the art of making love. For this, please begin reading the articles listed in the Index found at the top of the main screen.
How are you defining "sex"? Are you referring to the entire process of fooling around and making out followed by intercourse, OR, are you using "sex" and intercourse interchangeably?
It is important to understand the definitions in order to know what needs fixing: making out? Intercourse? Both? |
Sex = Romance
Begin planting the seeds of romance hours to a day before actually getting down to business. Plant love notes, plant suggestions, whisper sweet nothings into each other's ear, etc., et cetera, etc.
Sex = Making out
Much has been written appearing both in the Forums as well as in articles listed in the Index. Great make out sessions can last minutes for the proverbial "Quickie", to hours for full involvement of the emotions and psyches.
If the two of you are spending less than half an hour to making out then you are rushing the proceedings. It generally takes a woman a good half hour of kissing, caressing, hugging, cuddling, fondling, and so on before her level of arousal has been piqued and then peaked. For the fellas reading this, if you believe that the way to a great orgasm is from lots and lots of stroking then you are placing the cart before the horse.
Sex = Intercourse
If you want intercourse to last and last, then take periodic breaks and return to making out in between.
If your desire is for prolonged make out sessions, then simply keep each other's interests alive. It is important to understand that as long as there is sufficient interest and desire a couple can continue to make love for hours and have several orgasms during. Just understand that for both there is a down time or recovery period that varies in duration for each. Once this has past, there is nothing preventing either of you from enjoying one or more orgasms.
Several women have reported that they become
sore, bored, and tired, when intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes. If it want to prolong it, why take a chance, simply take a break, return to making out, peak each others arousal and begin, again.
So getting what the two of you want is not about pills, its about methods and techniques. I recommend that the two of you do some reading as noted, and then discuss what you have learned. Knowedge is empowering!
I hope this is of help. Got questions?