I know I want
- something that is VERY effective. I don't want to have to worry about if I'm pregnant or not.
- most of my fear is psychological so something that reassures that
- I only get a month or two with my bf due to having college in two different states 16 hours apart
I narrowed my choices down to
- birth control pill
- birth control patch
- IUD
( no matter what i use my bf will be wearing a condom)
but again the fear of effectiveness gets me
I plan to ask this questions to my doctor but i just want a few options first. any other birth control i should put on my list or remove.
please explain you choice so i can compare them to others thoughts.
THANK YOU

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What a sensible couple you are. I am sure this subject is well-documented and you have researched it anyway. I am sure that by using 2 of the methods, then the chances of your getting pregnant are pretty well zero. If a condom broke and you were worried, maybe the morning after pill would then give you peace of mind. However, the professionals will no doubt chip in here.