[QUOTE= She is a virgin and I suspect that could be a reason?[/QUOTE]
Maybe after 18 months courting things have gone rather slowly for her and have become a little 'stale'. Whilst not advocating that you go down the 'normal' route that many of us have followed (making the most of the adolescent explosion of hormones) maybe you need to consider if you are really sexually compatible. After 18 months I would have been expected by a girl/lady to have progressed beyond the heavy petting stage. Maybe I am wrong on this one and others will chip in their views.
