[Brandye]

You say it all with "new kids." You are both lacking experience and the only way to get that is practice. If she does not what an orgasm is, it is not likely that you will be able to help much. The younger a woman is when beginning to masturbate, the more likely she is to be satisfied with her sex life in later years.

She needs to learn to masturbate so that she knows what she is looking for. Not your problem; hers. She could start with this site, the book Our Bodies Ou Selves and clitical. com. No man will ever be able to explain to a woman what an orgasm is. Men simply do not know what a female orgasm is. OK, it is the release of tension in the muscles. That is only the mechanics. There is no way I could explain a male orgasm except in clinical terms.