I'll try not to give too much unnecessary information here we just need some ansers.
So it has been a year and a half since me and my current girlfriend started dating (aww..how sweet) and we practice oral sex and sexual messages. And yes I have read every artical on this site educating on cunnulingus and fingering. The first couple of times I fingered her it wasn't that good no biggie though because we're thinking I'll just get better. Well as time goes on we have been going out for one and a half years (aww...how cute.) and my dumbass still hasn't maneged to finish the job, never coming close to her orgasm is more like it.
FIRST QUESTION: I really don't know how I'm not doing a good job I try to respond to her body signals and keep going when she is liking it but it just results in failure. And we communicate well too (I think?). So what could I possibly be doing wrong?
SECOND QUESTION: When I ask her if she has ever had an orgasm she replies saying that she is unsure of what exactly an orgasm is. This suggests to me that she has never had one
. How would I go about explaining this to her? Shouldn't she have come across one while mastubating? Obviously she hasn't had one then either.
IN CONCLUSION: She says she doesn't care but she is just being considerate of my feelings, and if she never had chocolate I'm pretty sure she wouldn't care if she didn't know how much she liked it. I am just REALLY wanting to pay her back for the great job she gives me all the time and I am willing to do whatever for just that. It has been a year and a half and I have read every article on this site til' I'm falling asleep. Any more questions?..ask away.
I am way beyond frustration. Any answers and help is GREATLY appreciated, thank you in advance.