Thanks very much EEK and Int... You have got me thinking about things in ways that I didn't before. Thank you very much for taking the time to give me some really good advice.
And no, it isn't only about physical stuff. There have been other times where she just shut down and wouldn't tell me anything and it is frustrating. But like you said, if I really want to be with her than I have to learn to deal with some of her insecurities for now. At least until she is totally comfortable with me.
I guess the big question I really have to ask myself is if I think its worth it. I see your point that this might take more work by me than a normal relationship would and if I'm not up for it then I should just get out now. It will be more fair to her and I won't be wasting my time. Well, I feel a lot better after seeing your comments and I guess I have a decision to make.
Thanks again everyone
