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Very nice and all of that but it isn't the answer.
Look, she's been brought up to think sex is dirty and that women who enjoy it are sluts. She's been robbed. Yet you expect her to turn into some sort of sex kitten.
Stop trying to get her into bed. Instead try to get her to TALK about it. Ask her how she was brought up. What church did her family attend? Ask questions and just accept the answers. What your want is a frank and honest discussion about what her internal policies are. Do not accept "I don't know." She does know. She may not be able to put it into words and/or she may not be comfortable talking to you about them - but she does know what they are.
Frankly, I'd be amazed if she didn't have body issues. I sincerely doubt that she's ever had an orgasm. If she had, she'd know this was a huge problem. Guy, she has been systematically robbed of her birthright. Help the lady out here.
TALK TO HER.
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