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I'm not using any parts from the baby bouncer any more. I got too big for it and the door frames some time ago which is when i changed to hanging the harness from the attic beams. I took a trip to the hardware store and bought some rope and some bungee straps which replicate the bouncer. And I do regularly check all the straps for wear and tear and change anything that looks like its giving out.
I suppose I was worried about the beams because they do creak and groan under my weight, and it seems to have got louder just recently. Its difficult to see whats going on up there though when I'm in the harness. Because although the harness is attached to beams in the attic, the ropes pass down through the attic hatch and then I sit in the harness on the landing below.
I do use other more conventional methods to reach orgasm especially as it is not always convenient to use the harness. I just have better orgasms when I do use the harness. So far it hasn't given me any problems with my partners, although I haven't told any of them I do this, and as griff_32 says, not everyone would understand.
I can't really put my finger on why I like it so much. As I said above I have been using a harness of some sort since I was very young. I remember making harnesses out of my nightgowns hanging them from a shelf or hook on the back of my bedroom door and sitting in them naked and just enjoying the feeling of the material supporting me and pulling between my legs, then as I got older I realised they were sexual feelings. This is when I began to do it in private without knowledge of my parents. I actually can't wait until I move out and can do this whenever I like!
Wonder if I could get a job at Cirque Du Soleil?!
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