[FreakPower70]

I know this has probably seem like it has been done to death, but I looked through some of the old threads and didn't seem to find what I was looking for.

My story is that I have been with my girlfriend for four years and we have had our ups and downs. My sex drive has always been high and now that we are growing ever closer it is getting alot higher, she could turn me on just by holding my hand! Thing is, she is almost never in the mood, she likes sex, but she is never in the mood. On top of that I feel like it is impossible to turn her on, I try so many different things and just end up feeling... well rejected and not very attractive in her eyes (though she says I am attractive). I have asked what turns her on and she tells me she doesn't really know.

She has some body image issues and says she is a little ashamed of sex but doesn't know why. I dunno if she sees it as a big problem (that she is ashamed). She says it hurts sometimes when I do it and I don't know if it is my technique or her body. She has only masturbated a couple times and says it also makes her feel ashamed.

Our routine is that I give her oral then we have vaginal intercourse then we lay there for a bit. Don't get me wrong, what we do is fine and good but I still want to do more, to give her multiple orgasms, to have vaginal intercourse more than once in a sitting and to change it up a bit. She tells me after recieving oral once she is tired and it starts to hurt if I keep going, again I dunno if it is her or me, am I doing something wrong, is it just her body?

I crave her like never before, I am masturbating sometimes several times a day here and am growing ever more frustrated. I dunno what do. I am not saying it is tearing a hole in our relationship but it is hard. I love the physical feeling and the loving feeling I get from that time we spend together and would like to do it much more often. I am at my wits end.

Oh yeah, last thing, wanted to say I am 24 and she is 21. I deffinitly have a higher sex drive now then when I was a teen.