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Well the first two things I would submit are that, 1) there's more than two forms of BC in the world, and 2) she has more body parts than just her vagina or anus that are capable of pleasuring you. Don't just give up. Keep looking at alternatives--there's gotta be one that will work. I can't take the pill because of risk factors from the hormones, so they put me on a Minera IUD. I don't bleed nearly as much as I used to. I also have a quite capable mouth and hands.
Anyway, I personally consider it always wrong to go outside the relationship, unless you're honest about it from the get-go and your partner agrees whole-heartedly. But of course, then that's not 'cheating', it's an open relationship.
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