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I agree with Int about EFFECTIVE communication. I disagree with Butterfly - jealousy is never legit no matter how one dresses it up. Especially in this case! Let me explain.
She has been betrayed deeply in her past. She has had to fight for whatever she has now. She has what is called a "survivor" mentality.
This means that she is deeply insecure, quick to take offense, quick to perceive danger even when there isn't any, hesitant to admit error, and doesn't delegate or compromise well. Think of her as a particularly short-tempered tigress and handle with great care.
6 weeks is no where near long enough to gain her trust.
6 weeks is far too early to expect her to relax and let you into her inner life.
6 weeks means you're still on probation.
Given the above - you can now see that ANY attempt to come between her and her male friends is doomed to failure and will only result in YOU being cut out of her life.
Are you ready to hear the answer?
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