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Int, you covered the misunderstanding/arguing beautifully.
I'm gonna try to nail your other concern, about her hanging out with these other guys. Basically, thats also going to be a communication thing. I understand that you're not really the jealous type, but feeling the way you are about her hanging out with these other guys, ex's especially, is completely legit in my book. However the solution, again, is communication. Its not unreasonable for you to tell her that you're a bit uncomfortable with her hanging out with these guys so much, but not because you think she's untrustworthy. Just explain your feelings without being jealous or defensive, help her to understand where you're coming from and let her know you trust her, but not them(provided this is the case). It probably can't hurt to let her know that she can trust you, too. I bet she'll be much easier to be around once she finally relaxes with you and knows for sure that she can trust you. Remember, the relationship is still new, only 6 weeks. You two are still discovering who the other is as a person, so don't rush it.
Good luck!
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