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Originally Posted by shovein
Im a virgin and I have no idea what its like to have sex theres a some girls at my school I bet would really be good at it whats it like to have sex.
im 13 and IM a virgin waaaa. for some reason I really want to loose my virginity early
so maybe I will if a girl ever likes me and tells me and it turns out that i like her lol
p.S im 13  i really want to lose my virginity |
Why are you mad?
I know you really want to lose your virginity. Every boy has that wish, yet very few ever do until a few/several years later. Right now your hormones are raging and ruling your thoughts and this is normal at this stage of life. Just do not let those out of balance hormones rule your behavior.
I understand the curiosity about seeing a girl without clothes and the enthusiasm of letting her get to admire your body. That said, what does having sex mean to you? If all you are interested in is getting your rocks off, then you can probably do a better job just continuing to masturbate. If you are curious about the feelings and sensations, then get a small plastic Ziplock bag, cut a slit along the bottom of one side, add a lube, insert your penis, fold, wrap with a washcloth, and go at it between a couple of pillows for support. This pseudo-vagina is as natural as it gets short of the real deal.
It requires some practice to make intercourse completely enjoyable. It also requires a certain mindset, because other than doing it just for the simple fun of it, intercourse has more to do about a person's psyche than the feel good sensations, something you are not yet ready or mature enough to appreciate.
Transitioning from a child into an adult takes a decade. Just because people go thru puberty and are now able to procreate, does not mean a girl or a boy is mature enough to become a parent, let alone be responsible for the child financially and educationally.
Also, it is important for boys to understand that we want sex for much different reasons than girls, so do not expect any takers quite yet. What do you know about having responsible sex, meaning in part, birth control? It is very important for her to use some form of contraceptive, you a condom, and the two of you together, a third back up method, generally a spermicide. You just cannot be too cavelier or careful at your ages.
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