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If they won't let go of it, you need to let go of them. Instead of trying to change the perceptions of the people around you, change the people around you. Someone once told me, do what you gotta do to make your own life work for you, and screw the rest of 'em, because their issues are precisely that....THEIRS, not yours.
Get friends who appreciate and love you for who you are, instead of who they think you should be. The latter isn't real love, it's loving to make you feel like crap, and who needs that.
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