[EvilEvilKitten]

Nope - it is always the same.

Accept what you have.
or
Divorce.
or
See what you can do to change the relationship.

She has tried changing to no avail.
So now it is the other two options.
Stay and be happy with what she has or Divorce.

Mau - I am sure she does but just as women hate 'pushy' men so to do men hate 'pushy' women - esp when he has gotten it into his head that he'll never be able to satisfy her. Talk about Performance Anxiety! So is her desire "to win over/change him" greater than her desire to find someone she doesn't have to beg/demand/cajole/tempt into having sex with her? Seems like she's doing a lot of work for very little return.