[EvilEvilKitten]

Seek out your local Swing/Lifestyle Group and take a look.
Talk with them.
Then decide.

If either of you is at all jealous, it will not work.

And why not get a spare man for you? I ask because he seems to be "getting extra" while you're being left out in the cold - and that's NOT good.

Fair is Fair or there's No Deal, Baby!