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...then her point is to move forward.
I randomly ran into a girl from middle school after I was out of high school. She asked for my phone number and when she called, it was to perform the 'making amends' step of her 12 step program. Apologizing for all the crap in middle school that kids do because they're kids. I acknowledged that this was an important thing for her recovery and wished her well with it, but told her that we'd been in middle school, and kids do stupid stuff.
Learn from your past but don't spend too much time mourning it, or it will do you in. As a wise person once said, 'don't waste too much of today worrying about yesterday, or you could miss tomorrow'.
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