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Originally Posted by Sesshomarulover261
That is something I want to feel comfortable with before it happens.
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You're never going to, hun. If you ever do, it could be too late by then. People are very rarely comfortable with confrontation and break-ups. You have to take a deep breath and just do it, knowing that as much as it hurts, it's the best thing for you.
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Originally Posted by Sesshomarulover261
I do feel like he doesn't care how I feel during situations like that but I just don't want to go into it.
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He never will. 'I don't want to get into it' is a cop out for the reasons in my next paragraph. And trust me when I tell you that you deserve better.
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Originally Posted by Sesshomarulover261
I understand why you guys say to break up with him but I know when its time to let go of something. It has almost been a year, I would feel WORSE if I let that all go. We plan on a long-term relationship and I would like it to stay that way.
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This is called comfort with 'the devil you know'. You're scared to lose him because it doesn't feel good to be alone and you don't know when or if anyone else will come along. We've all been there. But you MUST have enough courage to reach for what you deserve. I promise you that he is not the be all and end all for you. Better WILL come along, and you need to be willing to demand that for yourself.