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So, he's just old enough to be tried as an adult.
I was going to post in the other thread that however innocent "the joke" might seem, it shows a complete disregard for not only your privacy but how important it is to him that *you* trust him. His actions then and in this post show that he takes your company for granted. Small violations are often rationalized to be 'ok' if harm isn't caused, however that rationalization process is what allows people to find themselves on a slippery slope of increasingly poor decisions in proportion to how difficult a position they are in.
18 is the age at which one can be tried as an adult for a reason. Regardless of his other qualities, he has failed to make the responsible decisions that are expected of him at this point in his life. Is your self-esteem so low that you're willing to condemn yourself to a life of staying up late worrying about and cleaning up the messes of someone who doesn't care about you just so you aren't alone?
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