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WTH is it with people being upset at 'still' being virgins before they can even legally practice driving with a licensed adult in the front seat? Age of Consent laws aren't made with random, arbitrary numbers that someone draws out of a hat. Rouge is right-one is best served starting sex at a stage in their lives when they can deal with the possible consequences, both good and bad. At 13-14 you're just not equipped, either physically or emotionally.
And don't kid yourself--some families wouldn't be supportive. I knew a girl a few years back who got pregnant very early in high school and she got kicked out of home. She was also so immature she was planning herself a shower, the date of which was before she was even showing. Personally, the first night I stayed over with a man, when I was 28 by the way, my mother literally cried and 'couldn't' go to church the next morning (it was a Saturday night) because she couldn't figure out how to explain my absence.
Some will blame the second paragraph on the taboo about sex, and may have a point. But, in case those things do happen, a person needs the maturity of which the first paragraph speaks before diving in.
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