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Often we are not entirely aware of why we do what we do. I was just pointing out a trap just in front of you that you were in danger of stepping into. Can't have you breaking a leg now can we?
I'm trying to indicate that while you cannot control him, you can expect, and demand, that he control himself - but only if you are willing to control yourself.
This is why sex and inter-gender relationships are so fascinating - there's is a subtle interplay going on between people - like watching a dance in slow motion where you can see every flip of a hip. ALthough the 'two steps forward and one step back' can be frustrating at times, it does eventually get the job done.
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