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"If Mama ain't happy...ain't nobody happy."
This is a sad state of affairs. I wonder if she has heard this ol' adage, above. The thing is, what if the situation was the other way around?
> she doesnt think its a big deal and says we dont need help.
As you stated: "therein lies the problem...." A partner/spouse should be aware and concerned enough to understand that if one partner says there is a problem--there is.
It sounds to me as if she has become emotionally detached. Unless or until she is ready to plug back in and work on improving what you perceive as wrong with the relationship, with or without outside help, things are not likely to improve. I do wish I could offer more.
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Life without dancing?
I don't think so......
The feet may learn the steps;
yet only the spirit can dance!
Dancing is the fastest way to get
a girl alone and into your arms in public.
The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the
heart, the soul, and yes, the libido.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass,
it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain!
Dance as if nobody is watching.
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