there lies the problem. i have disscussed counseling with her. she doesnt think its a big deal and says we dont need help. i love her very much and dont think losing her over sex is an option, but at the same time im misserable, and so frusterated with this issue that its affecting other aspects of my life including work and friendships etc. thank you all verymuch for your suggestions. unfortunately i still have no idea how to deal with this. its so difficult to explain how i feel about this. i dont know if you trully understand the situation im in,but thanx anyway. even though i dont know anyone here on a personal level it feels better to talk about it.
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Originally Posted by dancingdoc2
OK. Make an appointment or two with a marriage and family counselor and find one that you feel comfortable talking to. Explain the situation as you have with us and ask if this is a topic s/he has an expertise with. When you find a counselor, then work with the person individually and together as the person finds necessary. If you wife balks at the idea or simply will not participate then you have a decission to make.
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