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Originally Posted by ilovepussy
im 14 and still a virgin
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I'm going to quote my previous post on this (with a few additions).
[QUOTE]In all honesty, you shouldn't be upset...I would seriously hope that you're still a virgin at 13, otherwise someone is getting locked up for statutory rape and or child exploitation.....you're a kid. You want to have sex, but are no where near ready for the consequences. It's like a roller coaster; you have to be tall enough to fit in the restraints so you can have a safe, happy time.
Just imagine getting pregnant at 13 or 14. You wouldn't be able to deal with it, there would be major ripping because your body isn't ready to have a child yet (and therefore not ready for sex...the biological purpose of having which is for childbirth). Even with an abortion, there isn't the maturity behind it yet if you were to have one.
If you're a guy, imagine getting someone pregnant. You're definitely not in any place of maturity to be able to help your partner,or to help support a child, should one be born. There's not a decent level of responsibility yet; sex is an action, it can have consequences.
Now we reach the issue with sex at a young age (Evil will disagree). I'm of the belief that you need to test out future partners, yes, but only if you're old and mature enough to deal with love, hurt, disloyalty etc. No boy wants to get into a relationship at that age, so if you're looking for one by using sex, you'll be disappointed. Likewise, if you're a boy and having sex in your same age group, the girl will most likely want a relationship and get attached to you. Do you really want to deal with the emotions of a girl who isn't done maturing yet? NO! It'll be absolutely horrible.
My advice: Wait until you're 17/18 before getting into the world of sex. You'll still have all the time in the world to play, but you won't have to deal with school drama, you'll be much more mature and capable of taking care of the consequences of sex, and who knows, you could find your life partner (and be old enough to pursue a decent non-high schoolish relationship).
Patience is a virtue, the same can be very true with sex.