Well at the moment I think he's more focused on him but to defend him a little so am I, he's also an 18 year old in his defense...and because were both young with think about ourselves more than other people. To be honest I created this whole thread for me. I think that in time things will change.
Sitting him down would be difficult. I know he cares but he is not that type of communicator Doc
I wish he was but that is not him. He is not just like this with sex but with all of our problems. He prefers me to tell him the problem and after that he will fix it. At first I loved it...but now I wish he would communicate more with me, especially about sex because I am one of those people who really enjoy the idea of it and discussing it with lovers. So because of his personality instead of making him sit there and read articles I just talked to him about new things I learned. He even talked back :O
He knows it takes women longer than men to reach orgasm but in all reality he is a lazy 18 year old. Now don't get me wrong he is a good boyfriend, trust me, he devotes so much time to me and he is very affectionate. I have no fear in him not caring about me whatsoever so there is no need to end a one year relationship because of a small problem. Besides, I love him, he loves me. Were normal, we have a problem and problems can be fixed
I am going to tell him what feels good and doesn't and I actually do guide his hands already but I don't think he's really getting it...I'll begin to verbalize it more and tell him what I like and what doesn't do anything. See I've been trying to ask him what he likes, in fact yesterday I asked him several times, what felt the best? Did you like it when I did this? What about this? He just says everything feels good. :/ he's to easy going for his own good.
Yes! I am going to tell him I need more time! I need more of the getting ready and playing around. See today we had a time shortage so I think he rushed on purpose...oh well we'll see what happens !
LOL...dang...I wonder if having sex almost everyday sets us back a little bit too :P
Thank you for your amazing advice once again
Sesshylove