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I'm not a male, but I DO do the over-thinking thing at times. I have such a goal to 'knock him out', I used to research maneuvers and try in the moment to remember just how to play them out. Until finally one day he told me that the stuff I was the best at was the stuff I dreamed up in the moment. That what he liked the most was when I just relax and go for it. That's almost verbatim what he said. Putting too much 'brain' into it can keep you from relaxing into it and enjoying it. I agree with Doc. Have faith in the track record you obviously have, and don't let less-than-fantastic moments bug you.
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