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My suggestion for your consideration is to not get the court involved for the time being, and certainly not before exhausting all other avenues open to you. Take counseling as far as you can. Enlist her help in participating, together and/or separately.
DO NOT and NEVER place a child in the middle or as a bargaining chip when it comes to adult issues.
Right now, as I understand the situtation, the two of you need to learn coping skills and how to problem solve. A court takes the option of learning these life lessons out of your hands. Both of you must understand and realize that the two of you need to learn more about being a couple. So, why not work on this instead of taking the often expensive and not so easy out of separating until all else has failed?
Both of you need to grow up and this means learning more than you think you know, now.
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