[dancingdoc2]

I'm not certain if your previous response was about confidence or if it is about him not ready to take the plunge, yet.

If the former, it is important for him to acquire knowledge. With this knowledge come an initial level of self confidence. Practical experience and becoming a great lover comes from working together in partnership, exploring and learning together. Have him read the article on experience and one partner being more so than the other. The title doesn't pertain to your situation; however, the background information does.

All too often and as recent a couple of days ago, we have fellas who expect that making love is by the numbers. This just is not so. They want a script of what to do when and next and have contingency plans. Making love is fluid and is always in a state of flux or change. You can tell him this. What worked in one relationship may not work the same way in another. People are different, and as a woman your responses are changing daily--not so his and this he may not yet understand. This goes back to what I said above: explore and learn together in partnership. Give each other feedback on how each of you is responding to the others caresses and for what you need now/next.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?