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What happens during the week? Do you have days when you feel good about yourself and your accomplishments and other days when you doubt yourself and your abilities?
Confidence comes from knowing that you can and do a credible task or other undertaking and have accomplished it before.
Confidence comes from building upon small successes and adding to them.
Confidence can be ruined by questioning your abilities--so don't. There is no reason to if you have a positive track record.
Confidence is built from the ground up by undertaking some task and planning it out and then successfully accomplishing it. Like a notch in a gun stock, you just keep on keeping on adding more and more successes.
What if you fail? This is usually not a big deal. Learn from your mistakes and correct your actions or plan next time. There is no reason to be hard on yourself or self critical. Loosen up.
Give all this a try and report back.
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Life without dancing?
I don't think so......
The feet may learn the steps;
yet only the spirit can dance!
Dancing is the fastest way to get
a girl alone and into your arms in public.
The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the
heart, the soul, and yes, the libido.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass,
it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain!
Dance as if nobody is watching.
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