Don't worry i plan to show him this website and the index and tell him to study up XP
and yes we will discuss it in depth, i'm sure

and also don't worry, i'm aware that it won't be perfect or magically wonderful or anything like that

the only thing is though that he has been holding onto his virginity for quite a long time, and whenever we talk about it he gets reay nervous and i was just wondering if you could tell me what to say to him when he gets like this. i've assured him again and again that i'm not expecting anything near to amazing, but he still gets nervous, what should i say?