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Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles on the most common concerns people have. If you click on the site's Home page, you will find even more information. Please spend some time reading. Knowledge is empowering!

You can use use one of popular search engines like Google, Ask, Bing, etc., and get lots of drawings and illustrations of the male and female anatomy.

It is great that you asked your question. Keep asking and keep learning.

Are you really scard of sex, or just anxious or apprehensive because of all the unknowns? Actually being afraid is much different than just being uneasy due to having a lack of information. Either way, this is where this site can be of help to you and others and is the reason why it exists.

When the time comes for you to have intercourse, it may or may not hurt the first few times. That your hymen seems to not be a factor, the major source of a woman's initial discomfort is eliminated. If your vaginal opening seems tight/small, there is an exercise you can do to help relax it. What can cause some discomfort is not so much how your pieces-parts are configured, it is with how knowledgeable, skillful, and, gentle, your partner is. It is not unusual for a guy to want to poke, jab, shove, and just generally be rough in his enthusiasm and haste. WRONG. Also, consider using the Woman Superior position the first few times. You will find more information about this if you do a site search or read the article on this.

I agree with Brandye, you should be OK as long as you have a caring partner. Explore and learn together when the time comes. Before the time comes, read all the articles in the Index, and/or go to the library and check out the book: "The Joy of Sex".