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In the absence of physical/medical issues - any problem with orgasms is in your head.
1. What is your attitude about sex? A poor attitude will kill orgasms.
2. Do you tense up, hold your breath, worry about having an orgasm? If so you are stopping yourself from having one even before it begins and there is nothing anyone can do to get you off.
3. Were you abused, sexually or otherwise? You will need professional help to fix this.
4. Do you want to retain power over yourself and/or over your bf? Based upon it felt odd so I pulled bacl" I'd say YES. To which Id' say: GROW UP & LET IT GO. Because you're ruinning your relationship with him and you're cheating/hurting yourself.
5. There is something wrong in your relationship that you are unwilling to acknowledge, discuss, and solve.
Do not blame him - it is not his job to give you anything beyond a helping hand/penis/mouth. YOU have to decide for yourself that sex is grand, sex is glorious, and my sexuality is my birthright!
Face Up, 'Fess Up, then Fix Up!
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