ok.. so my fiance and i have been very sexually active for some time now.. and weve done just about everything.. except a whole lot of anal anything... weve done a little anal stimulation while fingering her... and other things.. but she isnt too fond of it.. i really want to try it more... i personaly enjoy anal stimulation, and have even tried penitration and i could handle it, and maybe with more getting used to it could find great pleasure in it... but she is kinda standoffish to the whole topic.. we tried acctuall anal sex once.... and it was a desaster.. probly my fualt... but were kinda past it.... lol im pritty big and we didnt really ease into it too much.. so it kinda scared her... so anyway.. just wondering if u guys had any tips on how to get her back in the saddle so to speak

thanks