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Yes, this is common.

Please read thru the Index as it contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles. The one you want is on how to give each other h/j's and b/js.

Key to you success is to have you show her how you masturbate and then to take her hand and guide her movements over several sessions until she learns to mimic your movements. Next, comes feedback. Both of you need to let the other know how you are responding and for what you need now/next.