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> Which is more likely to be the father.??.I feel horrible. I Need All Opinions.

There are two daily TV shows in the U.S.A. that regularly deal with DNA testing and who the father is. In one recent show a woman and her mother had been guests multiple times, each time "certain" she knew who the father of her child was. The last show I saw was to test man number six (6)!

You need fact not conjecture or opinions. What good is an opinion and what will the results tell you? What if the result is incorrect, then what? I understand that you are anxious, so wait until you have the baby in your arms and then seek a DNA test if need be.

As for home testing: get two different tests by two different manufacturers. Follow the instructions to the letter.

Ideally, you should test after your expected period. The longer you wait beforehand is better. Twelve to fourteen days is considered to give much more reliable results than less than this.

> The other says don't bother him with it.

Should this upstanding man turn out to be the bio dad, I hope you do "bother him with it!"